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How I Stopped Feeling like a Victim of my Life
“People who consider themselves victims of their circumstances will always remain victims unless they develop a greater vision for their lives.”
- Stedman Graham
Every day, something ‘horrible’ would happened and just tear me to pieces. However, by telling myself I would be okay, I was able to shift my view of life into a different angle, and it wasn’t easy. Which is why I am writing this post, to help others take the wheel and become the driver of their life once more.
- Shifting my view and perception
- Escaping my comfort zone
- Accomplishing a newer and brighter life and perspective
Shifting my view and perception
Why shifting my views was more complicated than I thought.
My thoughts were constantly getting shot down by my inner pessimistic demon; taking away my energy, desire, and my motivation. I needed to envision my future as if i was to do nothing about it, if I was to remain a victim. Then motivate myself to get back to the old and inspired me.
- First, I envisioned my future as if I was to remain in this catatonic victimizing state. Second, I ask myself, what do I want, Who am I, and Who do I want to be?
